- 9/12/2024 -
i'm rewriting things a little, i took out my previous entry, i didn't like it.
i feel really sick and stuff, and i'm a little stressed out.
i've finally gotten myself a job interview, which is supposed to take place tomorrow.
but the thing is, idk if i'm supposed to go to it in this condition.
i really want to, and i think i will..
i just idk if it's socially acceptable yk?
i don't want the interviewer to judge me for showing up sick :P
but.. i'm kinda desperate x//
i need that job :]
anyway other stuff- yk what awful realization i had some days ago??
i've been writing here for 2 months, and not once have i mentioned my love life!!
i feel so bad about it, like- wtf? idk why i haven't thought of writing about it before.
well anyway, whoever random person reads this,
i have a secret to tell you (shh!!)..
...
i'm very much in love.
i have been for 3 months already :3
there's been ups & downs, whatever you wanna call them-
i personally wouldn't word it like that but.. idk how else to really hmm name it ig?
i consider myself so lucky, and i'm so happy things are still good.
there's been times where i've felt like i've really fucked up yk? and i've felt like the worst person on earth :/
everything is great now, and i know they'll only get better from here!!
this illness i'm suffering from (probably ebola) is really kicking my butt rn, and i lost my train of thought
i'm not sure there's more to say about the above topic, so i'll be moving on..
hmm i don't want this entry to be too long,, anyway so lastly!! about the look of this page.. i still don't like it.
i haven't made changes to any of my pages in ages (holy shit it all rhymes!!),
and i'm having a hard time choosing a look and whatnot-
i REALLY hate how this page looks :(
i don't like my home button, it doesn't fit and..
there's so much off about this site, i don't like any of it. it's not cohesive :/
also there's some things with the text formatting that i need to figure out at some point, i don't like it!
i'll sit down and take care of it sometime- anyway
i think i've done enough writing for now,
i hope i won't cringe at myself later on.
and whoever reads this, please don't judge me :)
i'm just being silly :3
- 14/11/2024 -
life feels like a jumbled mess, just like my brain.
it's weird, when i feel down it's like my brain quits working like it's supposed to,
and my train of thought just doesn't run anymore. one thought here, one thought there.
it all pours out and none of it can be kept inside.
idk how i got here tbh..
i can't believe this is my life. it's my FUCKING life.
sometimes it feels like a nightmare, sometimes it feels like i'm getting deeper and deeper in the circles of hell..
wow i sound so goddamn emo!!! x3
tbh idk what my point was, umm.. hmm hehe
i guess i just feel really frustrated with how things are currently yk?
but i just can't shake off the feeling that things will get worse from here,
i have this feeling of impending doom looming over me. and no, before you ask-
it's nothing personal, has nothing to do with me and the people in my life. i just feel like something big is coming yk?
i don't think our world will do very well.. ugh enough yapping
i think this entry looks rlly ugly, i don't like how my text flows.. but oh well
also it's filled with ANGST and DESPAIRR and all kinds of dark stuff grrr!!
i know i'll cringe at myself so hard later, but that's life :)
- 6/11/2024 -
inside of me are two wolves :D
i was about to list them but nvm that would be cringe.
i'll just leave it like this. what a useless update! :3
- 22/10/2024 -
i've recently realized i've collected problems like they're insignias..
i was about to joke about it, but on second thought i don't think it's such a good thing and it's nothing to be proud about.
there's nothing cool with being mentally ill, and i think we should try our best to not let them become a part of our lives.
uhhh i forgot my point-.. fml
anyway the reason why i felt like writing this is that i think i might be slipping.
lmao nvm, that doesn't sound right, i've slipped in so many ways already :D
i'm only writing this for myself, i didn't wanna put this into my actual diary, and idk.. i need some filler here too, right?
so anyway whoever reads this, mind your own business, please?
note to self, rex is a great name for a dog, it likes bones!!
this was a weird entry, but i'll keep it.
- 17/10/2024 -
i wonder how much a trip to the us would actually cost?
i'd only need a one way ticket, and i don't think i'd be much of a spender.
i've never been. that's how i was raised.
but then again, would money rlly be an issue? only if i decided to take it back.
i wanna see it. i want to step on that soil one day.
i know it must seem weird to you, but i have my reasons. i'm not a fan of america by any means, but yk
873 euros.
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edit: i take that back.. uhh
anyway i'm thinking abt my future again.
i feel so awful abt what i've done to myself. i really regret it.
i wish i had never started. it's the worst mistake i've done so far, i think.
if i ever have kids, how am i supposed to explain it to them? what am i supposed to say?
i'm sure they'll ask me about it, and their friends, future teachers, other parents would stare at them too.
i feel so awful about it, i'm so ashamed. i don't think i'll ever be able to forgive myself for it.
it's bad.
- 13/10/2024 -
i wish i could watch zero day for the first time again.
i've lost count of how many times i've seen it atp, it's just so easy to take ur mind off of things and go back to yk?
i wouldn't call it my favorite movie or anything, but i still think it's great.
wish i could describe what i was feeling the first time i watched it :/
hmm now that i think about it, i'm kinda hesitant to label anything as my favorite??
either i've got rlly high standards for movies, or i just don't want to be judged over my likes lol..
i hate to talk about my interests tbh.
i own a bunch of band t-shirts, but i never wear them out because i fear people's opinions and i don't want any stares. i wish it wasn't like this, but i just get rlly anxious about it. i know it's silly but,, yeah- what can i do?
anyway kiinda back to my og point, nothing fills me with more cringe, than strangers asking about hobbies, music, interests.. it's happened alot with colleagues n the like- i understand they're just trying to be polite and everything,
but i just.. don't wanna talk about myself??? woww i knoww :O ...
idk what's wrong with me, or why i'm like this,, i just don't find a point in talking about it with them?
i also somehow think i don't deserve the space or time to occupy with my own shit?
does that even make sense?? no it doesn't..
well anyway this entry is really stupid, i kinda regret writing this-
also.. i feel a bit self-conscious about writing so often and so much.
i've seen other online-diaries on here, and you'd have to count urself lucky if they've even gotten an entry each month.
it seems like everyone else writes a lot less than me, and that makes me feel odd, out of the ordinary.
i'm just very used to writing random stuff, and it almost feels like a compulsion to me. i really enjoy it.
haha i just started thinking, this has gotten out of hand- i have a real, traditional diary too, and i've written into it almost daily these past few days. i think i might be writing a bit too much :[
uhhh anyway i've finally run out of things to say. this is bad.
i bet i'll be back in a day or so.. also i need to change the layout and everything, it's so ugly.
bye.
- 10/10/2024 -
ten out of ten, would recommend.
i checked how this looks on mobile, and well.. it's shit!!! :D
idk why, but when i use the br tag, the text within it is smaller?? and it only happens on mobile???
it won't stop me from using it though!!
everything is so ugly.
this text too. this especially.
anyway so i've never been very smart, and i don't have the usual problem solving skills. i usually just do something and see if it works, and if it doesn't, i simply give up-.
i find it rlly peculiar tho and i'll probably find the reason eventually. i'm stupid, so the reason might be obvious to others. but i wanna figure it out on my own. anyway when i tried to fix it, the music player's style changed and a bunch of shit so... :[
ah i feel like a failure x3
i'm so embarrassed
this will never be mobile friendly, i don't think i even want it to. but it looks so goddamn bad and disorganized and i fucking hate it. fuck fuck fuck
alright, until next time. cheerio!
- 9/10/2024 -
so- first entry eh?
tbh idk what i'm supposed to write about. i feel a mixture of emotions rn. i feel immense gratitude for everything i've achieved so far, and i'm so happy about how life keeps changing. but with some things i don't think i'll get used to change. i know this doesn't make much sense, and i know that you all (whoever ends up reading this) won't rlly get what i mean, but i'm just gonna pour my thoughts on here anyway.
idk how i feel about the idea of total strangers reading my most personal thoughts, and i don't like the vulnerability i'm expressing. but somehow i'd still want someone to hear me out yk? and maybe by putting this out there, someone else might relate to it, and find it helpful or something?? we'd all feel less alone if we just told each other how we feel...
anyway back to my original point. change.
i feel a bit sappy, and it's so silly. i shouldn't feel the way i do.
so basically i rlly miss one of my old friends, jennifer. i really really hope she doesn't come accross this at any point, because i'm sure she doesn't feel the same way as i do, and even if she did, then what? nothing's gonna change, we won't see each other again, and life just goes on yk? recently i've just felt nostalgic and i keep thinking about what-if's and stuff like that. how life would be different if i did xyz instead, and if my life would be more complete. i also think i was a shit friend. i'm so sorry.- you said it was all okay, and you told me i didn't do anything wrong, but i still feel guilty and all. i'm also worried about you. i don't think i've ever seen you happy, at least not when i still knew you :(
did life change for the better when you moved away? do you still hate your mother? how do you feel in general?
i wish i could ask you abt all these things, but i don't think anything will change how we are now. you're too far away, and i think once that connection is gone, u can't rlly get it back.. the times we've spoken again, it's just been different.
lol i actually wrote a poem about it a while ago. i wish it wasn't like this. we were fair-weather friends, yk the types that just send a message or a card during christmas to show each other they aren't fully forgotten, but still not close enough to talk about anything? yeah..
later i just kinda gave up, i'm sorry about that. i just thought you didn't (well probably don't..) wanna hear from me anymore, and i figured you had other stuff going on in your life.
i feel like everyone else can move on but me. and that makes me so pathetic. writing about shit like this is lame, but i wanted it out of my system i guess.. i might delete this later.
i'll try not to mope anymore, i need to look forward instead. i'll... work on that :P
alright lastly, i hope you're doing well jennifer. i really hope you're feeling better, i don't want anything bad to happen to you. i hope you live a happy and fulfilling life, and i'm so sorry for everything.
that's it for now. i'll write again sometime.